what if someone pet Dick’s discowing cleavage
Actually, there were three times. :(
1. Had sex with Starfire when they were both under mind control, and neither of them was ok. Dick was literally incoherent at the time.
2. Was raped by a metahuman named Mirage who had a crush on him, so she disguised herself as Kory and had sex with him, and then told him the next morning that it was proof that they were meant to be together because as a detective he should have known she wasn’t Kory.
(And then his friends all blamed him, including Kory, and Pantha even went so far as to call him a slut and grill him as to whether it had been better than with Kory.)
3. Was raped by Tarantula while he was in shock and almost catatonic after watching her to kill Blockbuster.
So yeah. Dick’s not a stranger to the sexual assault issue. Actually, all five Robins were sexually assaulted, either in the comics themselves or as part of their backstory.